Be Aware of Expectation You Set

We get disappointed when an event doesn’t occur the way want it to. Usually it’s cause of our own expectation, but sometimes it might not be our fault. Your friend assures he’ll arrive at your place at 12PM, but he doesn’t. That’s no fault of your own, but you still get upset and angry at it, […]

It’s Difficult to Come Back

Last week, I joined a 6 day happiness course. It was intense and fun. I was solely focused on it. I didn’t do anything except for stuff relating to that course. Which means, I didn’t write, speak on camera, program, move projects forward, etc. I did nothing. I was solely focused on that course because […]

Learning to Not Regret

We usually end up in situation where every possible path we can take leads to regret. Whatever you do, you’ll regret at the end just to realize if taking the other path would lead somewhere better. There are two things that can happen when you choose a road: Either you’ll regret, or you wont. And […]

Lessons from Crying Guy

I was sitting alongside the street watching vehicles pass by when I saw a guy stop his bike. He stopped and stood there for sometime until a woman arrived (who he had probably been waiting for). As soon as she arrived, he started crying. He walked out of his bike and kept standing on the roadside crying. They talked […]

Add, But Dont Abandon

When you are faced with a situation where you need to abandon a project for a period of time to make time for another project, don’t go for it. I was faced with similar situation at the end of January. I wanted to write blog post every day during the month of February. Before that, […]

Sacrifice Happiness: The Price of Greatness and Opportunity

I try to be happy, and when I’m happy, I always figure out that I’m settling for less. Is settling for less the price of happiness? If you long to reach the top of the ladder, you need to push yourself, which means you aren’t happy at your current state. And pushing yourself forward takes […]

Test Your Assumptions

When I was in School, we had to read a popular story of the Tortoise and the Hare. The story concerns a Hare who ridicules a slow-moving Tortoise and is challenged by the tortoise to a race. The hare soon leaves the tortoise behind and, confident of winning, takes a nap midway through the course. […]

How to Write a Blog Post Worth Your Readers Time

When we first start to write blog post, we often write it for others. We desperately want others to read it and give us immediate feedback. So we twist and turn our natural voice and flow to make people like it. With time, everyone falls on this habit of writing something which is off no […]

Strip Off Your Comfort (Road to Voluntary Discomfort)

We all take things for granted. It’s only after we lose them, we realize about it’s presence and impact on us. Look at your body, you have eyes, ears, hands, fingers, legs, and almost everything you need to survive comfortably in this planet. You take all your body parts for granted. Handicapped people only realize […]

Why Taking Picture is The Worst Thing You Can Do in Any Life Time Event

My sister’s wedding just went in a flash. I was enjoying the moment, now it’s gone. When we look back after a year or so, we’ll be like, “Wow! time traveled so fast.” Life is fleeting. Lots of events that happen now will not make sense after 1000’s of years, but it does make sense […]